New writing now lives on Substack
I’m keeping selected essays and resources here, but my current writing now lives on The Midlife ADHD Edit on Substack.
That’s where I share new essays, ADHD coaching insights, podcast updates, and shorter Notes for capable women in midlife whose lives look successful but feel harder than they should.
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ADHD and the Drama Trap: Breaking Free
Discover how ADHD impacts relationships through drama-seeking behaviors. Learn strategies to break the cycle and build healthier, more stable partnerships.
ADHD, Entrepreneurship vs. Employment
Hey, quick question—what ADHD assumption bothers you? For me, it's when people tell those with ADHD what they can’t do.
Why I Walk
Why do I go on walks? Meditation, introspection, rumination, lots of "-ations".
ADHD and Physical Intimacy: A Guide to Navigating Sex and Relationships
This post delves into another crucial aspect of romantic relationships for individuals with ADHD: sex and intimacy.
Supporting Your Partner: A Guide to Navigating ADHD in Relationships
This is a follow up to the post to my guide to understanding your friends with ADHD. This is part of the user manual educates you about ADHD within romantic partnerships. Think of it as the care and feeding of your ADHD partner.


I joke that everyone should come with a user manual. I have ADHD, and I believe that if I had a guidebook for friends, dates, and partners, this could be a chunk of it. It would make life easier, wouldn’t it?