New writing now lives on Substack

I’m keeping selected essays and resources here, but my current writing now lives on The Midlife ADHD Edit on Substack.

That’s where I share new essays, ADHD coaching insights, podcast updates, and shorter Notes for capable women in midlife whose lives look successful but feel harder than they should.

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ADHD and the Drama Trap: Breaking Free
Andrea Toole Andrea Toole

ADHD and the Drama Trap: Breaking Free

Discover how ADHD impacts relationships through drama-seeking behaviors. Learn strategies to break the cycle and build healthier, more stable partnerships.

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A Guide to Understanding Your Friends with ADHD
Andrea Toole Andrea Toole

A Guide to Understanding Your Friends with ADHD

I joke that everyone should come with a user manual. I have ADHD, and I believe that if I had a guidebook for friends, dates, and partners, this could be a chunk of it. It would make life easier, wouldn’t it?

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