New writing now lives on Substack
I’m keeping selected essays and resources here, but my current writing now lives on The Midlife ADHD Edit on Substack.
That’s where I share new essays, ADHD coaching insights, podcast updates, and shorter Notes for capable women in midlife whose lives look successful but feel harder than they should.
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Never Say This to a Person With ADHD
Please don't say these to someone with ADD. I used my own triggers as the basis for this advice.
What ADHD Is and Is Not
Since I've become more vocal about my own ADD I've discovered that people really don't understand it. Here, I bust some of the stereotypes, while also joining in the fun of them.


I joke that everyone should come with a user manual. I have ADHD, and I believe that if I had a guidebook for friends, dates, and partners, this could be a chunk of it. It would make life easier, wouldn’t it?